Bachelorette Party Games, How To Get Attention, Interest, Fun and uniqueness in
I wanted to make this bachelorette party games page a complete guide to some of the widely known games played. The classical, as well as a few of my own creations for everybody to pick and chose from "buffé-style", on the basis of what you and your guests like, what kind of a party it would be and how long you play the bachelorette party games. Here are some of the done party games kit for your convenience. If you know which games you want GO TO THE NEXT STEP GET ORGANIZED While the bachelorette party planning is all about the BIG PICTURE, the different areas of the bash however, are not. Organization equals a party that is without hitches from beginning to end. Though every party begins with writing and thinking, it is not always as easy as it would seem. Coming up with ideas for bachelorette party games isn´t difficult, however, coming up with good ideas is. Take out your favorite pen, grab a pad for keeping notes of activities and the overall "to do" list and let´s begin. What does a professional list look like? What should be in it? Do some research on the different bachelorette party games out there. Devide them into subsections (complicated-either for play or planning, type-for manners stile and class in which they are executed, exciting-for motivation, involvement and fun, time-for how long of a gameplay and last but not least db-for decibel as in loud, if you´re planning a home party). Take into account all the characteristics of each and every bachelorette party game, which should be uniquely suited for your party. That´s where "knowing thy self" and thy neighbours is a strong quality to have when determining the nature of your bachelorette party games, how far you are willing to take it and how strong those bachelorette party games should be. As for the neighbours, I find that for the most part, they don´t mind if there´s a hoopla every once in a while. It also helps the good ol´ Public Relations (aka PR), if you ask them to join you. Or, if you don´t want to invite them, at least tell them about it so there´s no surprise when you crank up the volume. I generally find it easier just to invite them, because then they are in no position to voice their discontent if they are part of the "problem". KNOW THE CROWD: If you know that a particular guest or guests usually lose bachelorette party games and don´t get the chance to win much often at those bachelorette party games, tournaments and competitions. Keep an extra eye on those guests and make special bachelorette party games just for these people to compete in, (with each other). Make up tasks/bachelorette party games that will virtually guarantee a victory for each and every one of the participants (if they get cranky for losing). The group should only consist of folks that lost. Keep those who won out, so that the others have a chance to catch up. The trick is to involve as many guests as possible to participate in the bachelorette party games, by giving them something to desire if they win. When you play the bachelorette party games, you always need some sort of prize, to properly motivate your crowd to come forward and join the game. For those who know they always loose at bachelorette party games (As I so vigorously like to call them: Motivationally challenged, as you might have noticed I just love to make up new words), might not want to play. In that case you simply pick those gals out of the lineup and tell them that they are chosen for this activity. It doesn´t even have to be a bachelorette party game (it can be a lottery), just make sure they WIN something afterwards. You can have party gifts/prizes for all of the girls in the crowd, no matter if they win or lose the competition, there is no last place in this game. The important thing to remember here is... TO HAVE FUN! Make sure to hand out the winnings directly after the bachelorette party games are done, that way morale will continue to be high even afterwards. It´s very important for people to have the prize in their hands, to see it and to touch it, for them to become properly motivated. Proceeding with the celebrations and their self-confidence a bit higher then it was before. Don´t think about the bachelorette party games as just a means to pass the time or make the night go faster. Think of your bachelorette party games as a crowd pleaser and something that gets all involved parties to feel good both mentally and physically. Feelings are sooo adictive and people love to have them, especially the good ones. So, plan your bachelorette party games from the perspective to balance their winning/losing streak and establish equilibrium. Even if you don´t know all of the people in this party, you can still find out who is not good at winning by observing the results. [Party tip] Never ever ask people directly to their face, or when in a crowd, if they are bad (if they want to tell you, they will tell you). Asking people this is just like confirming they are lousy before they even had the chance to play. Doing so is a very unpleasant, because the person will feel embarrassed and might not want to join in. In addition to that, she´ll lose her competitive instinct and once again have low self esteem which results in lesser fun. The psychology is that if you get pushed down often enough, you´ll start believing the propaganda yourself. Observing is the key to good morale. [/Party tip] To boost morale even further, make sure that everybody that lost has the chance to win by having a few quick bachelorette party games and devide the crowd in small groups. Take the people who lost in each of the groups and let them play a bachelorette party game together. Preserving the balance between good and bad players, keeping those who win a lot in one group and those who lost in the other. If you have any questions and need to send an email, here´s the way to contact us I usually like to make up my own parties, trix and bachelorette party games, so this is no different... Before we start with the bachelorette party games though, I feel that some advice is in order. First of all, you need to appoint a leader/host who should see to, that everybody behaves and follows the rules. This doesn´t have to be the hostess for the party, although she is the ideal candidate. If she doesn´t want to, she can appoint someone she trust to fulfill the task instead. Everything revolves around the stagette. To plan the bachelorette party games you have to know the bride-to-be as a person, what she likes/doesn´t like, and adapt it after her taste. Don´t go beyond her personality, if she´s "calm at heart" and you choose a wild bachelorette party game that is "out of character" for her she might get uncomfortable. And if you don´t know what she likes, you can always ask. Well at the party, go over the plans with the bachelorette so that both you and she agrees on how the party should proceed. There should be no doubt about how the bachelorette party games should be played and how far you are willing to take it. Some people have different ideas on the meaning of "a good time" then others. Therefore, talking to each other during game activities is very important and sometimes VERY necessary. So for everybodys safety and to ensure a good time, you can agree on a safety word to use if things get out of hand.
GIRL BONDING: The best thing with actually making your own games to use at the bachelorette bash is NOT that you can use the help of your girlfriends, but to take the time to talk, laugh, have fun and get to know ALL/most of the girls that are going to participate at the shindig. This is the TRUE ice breaker girls.
Although, I must admit that some people don´t have the time to make and prepare things themselves and therefore have to BEGIN breaking the ice at the party. I think this is the first website to actually encourage people to get into the bachelorette spirit and do something together as a group (not including the planning bit of course) BEFORE the actual event, but maybe it´s just me :P. OK, enough rambling, let´s get down to business (or in this case, partying). There are a few types of bachelorette party games that can be divided into categories. The types are: Classic/popular, Instant hit and Original Categories: Draw/Cut outs, card games, board games, quests/dares and other/do it yourself/(unspecified). [INSTRUCTIONS] Now, there are 2 TOC´s, 1) is the TYPES TOC and 2) is the CATEGORIES TOC. You click the TOC nr 1 if you want to see ALL the general bachelorette party games that go under those 3 types. Which are not in any particular order. The 2:nd TOC is if you want to find specific game categories. And the final (3:rd) TOC is for those people who know exactly what kind of party game they want. There are 3 types of ratings/levels on the different games. Level ratings are from 0-10 (0 to 2=Low 3 to 5=Medium and 6 to 10=High). So those gals that feel they like a more conservative gameplay, should definitely check out the rating score of the respective games. Those scores at the bottom tell you what you need to know in terms of their guest friendly and sexually oriented nature, for those gals who prefer a more quiet gameplay, so check it out before you pick your play. The "Noise level" score is for the in-door parties only (if you plan on having it in your house). [/INSTRUCTIONS] Let´s start with the most popular, because these are the most sought-after bridal shower games. 1) TABLE OF CONTENT (Types): CLASSIC/POPULAR INSTANT HIT ORIGINAL GAMES
2) TABLE OF CONTENT (Categories): DRAW/CUT OUTS CARD GAMES BOARD GAMES QUEST/DARE ICE BREAKERS DRINKING GAMES OTHER
3) TABLE OF CONTENT (games): CLASSIC/POPULAR: Pin the macho on the man: Or as it´s so affectionately called "Pin the hose on the fireman" and sometimes credited as "Pin the hot dog on the man", but these are all the same game. Read about how to play pin the macho on the man. Here's a great resource if you quickly want to find your most popular bachelorette items
Bachelorette Pinata:Bachelorette pinata & ideas. Set up/time: 2 Min
Play/time/instructions: Just hit it as hard as you can ;) Players: Undefined/No limit (make it so that the waiting time isn't too long). Complexity level: Low (2) Humiliation level: Low (2)
Suck for a buck:
Hmm... sounds illegal :). Set up/time: 5-30 min First, pick a t-shirt from your huge assortment of clothes in the closet and make sure it´s a blank shirt, any color will due, but best would be white or pink. Preferably as sexy and tight as possible to lure all the men to you like the sirens did with the sailors at sea. Wooolooooaaaah (in case you were looking at me funny and wondering if I´ve completely lost it I should tell you that this is my siren song, try it out for yourself, you might like it). Ehem... Where was I? Oh that´s right!Use lipstick, marker, sew on or buy imprint (letters you can make on your printer and iron on cotton t-shirt). Let the text say; "Suck for/4 a $" or "Suck for/4 a buck" (whichever you prefer, but the first one has lesser letters, quicker and easier to make). Or just buy the t-shirt to save a couple of days making it, no just joking. Play/time/instructions: No time-limit (Play as long as you like, or until the candy runs out). There are 2 ways you can play this bachelorette party game. 1) Put lifesavers on the t-shirt and let people (preferably men, suck on the lifesavers for a dollar). Remember to have a spare t-shirt or jacket at hand for a quick wardrobe change. Beware of those few that don´t carry change, this has actually happened a couple of times before. So bring it! 2) If you don´t want to do it with the lifesavers, you can use a candy necklace instead. The "victim" can then chew off one candy bead from the candy chain for the same amount of dollars. Players: Undefined/No limit Complexity level: Low (2) Humiliation level: Medium (4)
Male Rating Cards:Get back at all the boys for treating you as a peace of meat all these years (just have them close by when walking down the town and rate guys as they pass by). Good for those male cabaret shows, pool-parties and nightclubs as well. Set up/time: 10-20 min There are 3 things in particular you need besides glue, paint and glitter to begin making your rating cards. 1) large paper cut-outs 2) cardboard to stick em on 3) Alternatively a stick to put your cards on, so that you can raise the ratings higher than everybody else and get a better chance for the strippers to see YOUR rating. Or if you get that particular unlucky spot at the cabaret (you know, waaay back). Cut out both the paper and the cardboard and make sure they are both the same size (for ex; 6" x 9"). Use the cardboard as a brace to paint each of the paper rating cards, switching to the next when you´re done painting and fixing the first one. NOW, for the interesting part. How should I change the ratings? Well, if you thought you should glue the cards on, you´re WAAAY off :P. If you have some pins lying around, this is the time to use them. You need 2 pins to hold the cards top corners on the board. Pin all 10 cards on the board using the 2 pins and flip the ratings as you see fit using the 3:rd pin to keep the flipped cards on the other side of the board. If you want to have the rating cards with the mounted stick on, keep reading, otherwise just skip this how to :). 3 ways to do this: 1) Glue/superglue on the stick (won´t hold in rough weather if you plan on walking with it a longer period of time). 2) Break out your hammer from the dusty closet and find 2 or more nails to spike them through the cardboard and the stick. 3) The best one in my opinion. Take a knife and cut 2 vertical and parallel holes that are wider than the stick itself. Take some string and wrap it around the stick and thread it in the holes. That way it will definitely stick in weather and wind :). Play/time/instructions: Undefined/unspecified "gametime".Well, the instructions are super easy, just rate the men and hold those cards as high as you can for them to see. Players: Undefined/None Complexity level: Low (0) Humiliation level: Low (1) Noise level: High (8)
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Bride and Groom Trivia:
This is a particular fun loving game that many girls have some mixed feelings about hehe. Understandable, since there are folks that don´t want other people meddling in there private affairs, to disect parts of that persons intimate relationship with their partner. Here's how to play it!
Scavenger Hunt:
You can´t begin your scavenger hunt game before you are a fully fledged pirate, so join the pirate school where you´ll learn to be really scary in your pirate hat and eye patch, aaaarrrggghhhh matey. There are a few versions of this bachelorette party game, including a scavenger hunt card game which we´ll cover further down (in a galaxy near you ;P). This is a party standard at any bachelorette festivity, you just have to play this. Set up/time: 1-10 min Prepare by appointing a lead scavenger in each team. Go over the rules with all participants before gametime. The simplest way for you to go about it would be to have a prepared game at hand, second choice is to give it a personal flair/touch, for example by hiding or assigning different items/tasks to different locations and giving the players a time limit to aquire them. The best way to plan what to include in your mission roster would be to have every day items (toilet paper, towels, perfume etc), but make sure not to make the hunt too short. If you want your hunt to be more outstretched, blend in some of the more difficult and rare items. For people who plan on having a scavenger hunt out doors (in the city or cover a wide area, should not attempt this without proper backup, such as other bridesmaids or those who do not intend on participating as a player). Getting help along the way also makes for a unique scavenger hunt. Each teams checklist could include recruiting a sidekick to help with the search, find a person willing to help and recruit them (exclude the 2 item penalty for this one gals). This planning process is fairly complicated if you intend on going about it by yourself to have a high quality hunt, so those of you who feel that you don´t have the time and energy to focus all your efforts on one single game, should aquire the game with it´s full instructions. Now if you really truly want a professional bachelorette party scavenger hunt game, you just absolutely have to visit this company to book your next hunt! They have done literally 1000´s of scavenger hunts and you will have so much fun, you´ll be needing a doctor every 10 minutes for those convolutions of laughter... Guaranteed!
Play/time/instructions:
30-1,5 h Either create or buy this classic bachelorette party game at any bachelorette store. On this scavenger sheet, you will find pre written items you have to obtain before you are declared the winner. You can either make up the "items" or follow the bought scavenger hunt list. The list can include both items and/or services you have to obtain in order to win, like underwear from a guy, condoms, dancing with a hunk, getting a free drink, a phone number etc. Each "item" has a different rating value. Points are counted at the end of the hunt and the victor is then proclaimed by either score and/or by number of items. There should be a 2 item penalty for every new player that joins the team. This bachelorette party game can be played either with a group of single players or in teams for enhanced gameplay and for more fun (jeez, I sound like some of the videogame commercials!). [Scavenger hunt tip]:For further enjoyment, each team can have one video camera (preferably DV cameras for greater resolution) with them and record each "item" listed on the scavenger hunt sheet as video proof. After getting back to the "headquarters" you can all watch the video tapes together and laugh your fannies off but don´t forget to announce the winner.[/Scavenger hunt tip] [This is only a general description of the gamerules, which may not apply to your specific bought scavenger hunt game, this is only intended as a suggestion/guide on how to play this bachelorette party game] For more information on the rules, read all about it on this website. Or, skim through this bachelorette website to get more ideas on items needed. Players: 3-4/team (or larger if you have more guests/players) Complexity level: Medium (4-5) Humiliation level: Low (0-2)
That Guy Game:
A tried & true recipe of a good night on the town. Getting to know that guy game, is a fun icebreaker as well as a creative hunt around the city.
Set up/time:
0 min
Play/time/instructions:
1-3 hours
Instructions are at the top of this game.
Players: 3-10
Complexity level: Low (0)
Humiliation level: High (9)
Noise level: High (10)
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Pecker Toss:Aaaaah, the good old horseshoe toss...with a twist. Up...up...and awaaaay! There is a Swedish expression for the word "bullseye" and that is "Mitt i prick" if you get my drift ;). Set up/time: 20 sec Just get your favorite dildo with suction cup or buy the pecker at your local or naughty store. Play/time/instructions: 5-10 min Place the pecker on the floor step back 5 feet and make a visible line to stand behind. Those who violate and step over the line gets disqualified or loses points (-1 point). +2 points for a direct hit. Take turns throwing the rings or separate the group into teams (Blue, red, green, yellow etc.). Players: 6-10 Complexity level: Low (0) Humiliation level: Medium (4) Noise level: Medium (3)
Bachelorette Dice Game:
This is the classic bachelorette party game of otherwise questionable intent. This two dice, and other bachelorette party games is fairly simple to play. Just throw and see what happens. But be warned, you must obey every command.
Set up/time:
0 sec
Just buy the game at your local bachelorette party store and then you´re off on your adventures.
Play/time/instructions:
15-30 min
Well, before it get´s boring that is. Or it might not...you never know :P Only one rule, follow the dice! If you want to create your unique play. Make up a mission the bachelorette/other players have to follow for every throw and for every symbol on the dice.
Players: 3-12
Complexity level: Low (0)
Humiliation level: Medium (3)
Noise level: Medium (3)
Dinner mystery:
If you don´t want the trouble of planning and setting up your own dinner mystery theme, these resourses will provide you with an all you can eat buffe. Physical attendance events: Murder mystery event Physical presence is requested if you´re thinking about attending a murder mystery here. - UK location Murder mystery events - UK location If you however want to play your own murder mystery, then here are some great places to start... Free murder mystery games: Sleuthing down the culprit, is part of the deal, the important thing is that, in the end... you´ll get your man. Just be methodical, & you´ll get there. Game 1, Game 2, Game 3 Free murder mystery games Downloadable: A night of mystery game. Merri mystery game Murder mystery Play murder mystery, both as download & as physical boxed sets. Murder mystery game The UK version of murder mystery Boxed & shipped: Real murder mystery game Murder mystery kit sent per mail. Academy mystery - UK/US & Canada based, but shipping is available around the world.
ORIGINAL/FRESH BACHELORETTE PARTY GAMES:
Spin the Pecker:
Add a little excitement to it and you have a hell of a bachelorette party game on your hands. Combine it with bachelorette dares and you might be one of the lucky ones to wake up with a hangover the size of Russia, on a fishing boat on it´s way to Nova Scotia. But that´s only if you´re lucky ;). Set up/time: 7 min Get everybody together in a nice relaxing sofa, make some snacks, get Mr alcohol involved and get ready to have a blast. Play/time/instructions: 20-1 h (or longer) Whip out the dildo from your usual place like the bed drawer. You can sit on the floor or on the furnitures, preferably some place comfy like a sofa/chairs/armchair. Get your friends to resemble a circle as much as possible. Place the pecker on a table or a floor in the middle of the circle and spin spin spin. Nothing more to say really, except either make the dare questions in advance or make it up as you go along. My recommendation is to wing it because it will be totally unprepared and more fun and exciting to see what people can come up with in the heat of the moment, spin it and wing it. Players: 6-10 (or more) Complexity level: Low (2) Humiliation level: High (9) Noise level: High (7)
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Bachelorette dares:
Do it or loose it, Make it or Break it, Do or dare, this dangerous bachelorette party game is not for the timid and faint hearted. To win you need courage, boldness and a twist of luck to pull it off. Getting people to do your bidding has never been easier! :P Of course all you have to do before you can make someone clean your dirty dishes and take out your garbage, is to win! Set up/time: 3 min You need your favorite bachelorette party dare game, a bunch of fellow players and a judge that can rule in your favour (in case you´re like me and love to cheat). Jokes aside... Here is a very enjoyable dare game that has been played for centuries. Play/time/instructions: 30-45 min If you´re bored playing the same old dares, fear not as these dares can be played by adding a little twist to the whole thing. Board games, dice, or even "spin the bottle" can be applied to function as a part of the bachelorette party game, giving it a more "random chance of luck" to the whole game. Rather than applying a "punishment" for the "truth or dare" bachelorette party games you normally play, where the player herself decides the outcome of the "punishment" for the opponent if she choses dare instead of truth. Just assign some sort of "punishment" to a specific number on the dice and when the dice falls on that number, then that person will be punished. Simple, yet effective. Other crazy dares such as scratch a dare are alternatives to the otherwise common dares we see in everyday life. This will definitely stir up some crazy laughter. Players: 3-12 Complexity level: Low (2) Humiliation level: High (9) Noise level: Medium (5)
Sculpt a Pecker:Michael Angelo would be so proud. Set up/time: 7 min Buy some bananas or cucumbers (as large as possible). Have 1xKnife, fork, tablespoon, a dinner plate and lots of toothpicks for every guest sculptor who wants in on making a masterpiece. Prepare some fruits/candy/vegetables to go with the banana or cucumber so it´d look better, like sprinkles, chocolate ice cream sauce, colored marzipan, raisins, radishes etc. Let everyone sit down by the table and get ready. Make a list of names for every participant with 3 lines between each name. Play/time/instructions: 15 min Explain the rules to everyone (make´em up or go with these). They have 10 min to make the best and most lookalike penis to the real deal or as outrageous as possible. Place 2 condoms in the middle of the table (unopened of course) and the person who is first to dress the pecker down with the condom after creating her penis wins. Alternatively, the person who wins by most points gets to coronate her penis with the see-through pleasure sheath. Cut the cucumber/banana in half so it stands on the plate and get to work. How to judge: 5 minutes goes into judging all of the peckers by design, likeableness, flair and item. Each item that is on the table has different points (Sprinkles 5, chocolate sauce 2 etc, set the points on the items as you see fit with the most difficult items to stay on the pecker having the highest points) .+5 points for every character (flair, design etc.) -1 point for every item that has fallen off the pecker. Players: 6-7 Complexity level: Low (0) Humiliation level: Low (0) Noise level: Medium (4)
Carve that halloween pumpkin:Carve...carve...til your eyes bleed & you´re covered in pumpkin meat. Set up/time: 10-15 min Get a knife, a spoon, ice cream scoop, towels, newspapers, marker or pencil & an apron for each of the players. Play/time/instructions: 20-40 min Each of the players take a pumpkin and start carving. If you´re unsure on how to do it, then here´s a good resource to start off with. How to judge: Appoint a judge. That person is going to need a scoreboard. Assign a time limit to get it done. The best design or the fastest carver wins....X (something of your choosing). Alt: The contestants throw all the residual pumpkin insides on the winner (but of course as a judge, you don´t tell them that beforehand). Players: 3-7 Complexity level: Low (2) Humiliation level: Low (0) Noise level: Medium (4)
Bag it and tag it!:All I can say is grab it and feel it. Set up/time: 4 min Walk around the house and pick up everyday things. You can put them in a plastic/paper non see-through bag and place the items inside. You can use male or female items, or just mix and match. Don´t let the items be to big otherwise it won´t fit into the bag.Get each player pen and paper to write down the answers on. Play/time/instructions: 15 min Place 5-10 items in the bag. Let the guests take turns to feel the bag for 20-30 seconds each, or less and then write down what things they think is in the bag. How to judge: If there is a tie between two players, the player that had the closest guess at an item wins. Each item is worth 2 points. 1 point for configuration (item) and 1 point for colour. 1 point can be rewarded at the judges discretion for the closest guess in the event of a tie. Players: 6-10 Complexity level: Low (0) Humiliation level: Low (0) Noise level: Low (1)
DRINKING GAMES:Here are the craziest alcoholic and non-alcoholic bachelorette drinking games on the planet!
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