Make a cardboard man or have a very large blank A1 size paper. Put it on the floor and draw a naked guy named Steve, anatomically correct of course. Fill his private parts with candy (ears, nose, lips, eyes, nipples, pecker and knees).

Set up/time:

10 min
For this you´ll need a cardboard or a big piece of blank paper, lots of candy, a blindfold and a pair of dice.

Play/time/instructions:

20-40 min

The bachelorette begins the game. Have everybody sit in a ring around Steve.Two ways of playing this game...1) Take a die and throw it. The number will show you how many throws/turns you get. Now take the die and throw it again. This will show you how many pieces of candy treats you can remove from Steve (with your hands, or mouth, decide the rules before play).

After your turn has ended the next player is up. You can do it clockwise or counter-clockwise. The first who removes the last piece of candy wins. The one who wins gets to place a dildo on our good guy Steve and blow him off as a reward.

2) Take a die and throw it to know how many seconds you have to grab the treats. After that, pick up the die and throw it to know how many treats to take. Now get the blindfold and put it on the player. Spin her around 3 times and get her on her knees. Now she has to feel her way to the candy on Steve and pick up X amount of candy in X amount of seconds.

If she fails, the next player is up. If she succeeds she can go another round until she fails. All candy a player grabs must be put in the mouth for it to count as "a candy taken". The player can not take a handful, she must get one at a time.

Spread the candy evenly on Steves paper body, but have a couple of the treats on his specific areas such as his mouth, nose, ears, lips, pecker, knees, nipples tightly together in a bundle instead of one by one.

Players: 3-8

Complexity level: Medium (3)

Humiliation level: Low (1)

Noise level: Medium (3)

Put a bachelorette in a chair handcuff her to it. Have her only wear her thong or her grandma panties (or whatever garment she feels like wearing), a top or a bra and a blindfold. The idea is to have as many bits of the bachelorette exposed to the elements. Of course this is an indoors game so don´t do this outside in January.

Set up/time:

7 min
Get all the props in the house you can find (A spoon, fork, knife, feather, fruit, ice, toys, clothes etc), different materials (latex, rubber, leather etc) one of each is enough. The idea is to have something cold, warm, smooth/soft, rough etc.

Play/time/instructions:

10-20 min
Make her feel or taste an item and guess what it is. Make her feel the item in all the ways, put it to her skin, brush it against her skin, poke her with it etc. Of course be gentle. The bachelorette decides how she wants the item presented. She decides if she wants to get poked or taste it or feel it etc.

How to judge:
The first time she feels something she has to guess what it is. If she guesses right, she gets 5 points.

For every additional time she wants to hold it/feel it/taste the item/hear what it sounds like, she loses a point. She gets one guess every time she feels/tastes the item, then she must request to further feel/taste/hear it if she wants to continue guessing. The one who gets the most points wins. What they win is up to you. Not only the bachelorette gets to play, if the bridesmaids want to join in, they can happily do so.

Players: 1 or take turns

Complexity level: Low (2)

Humiliation level: Medium (4)

Noise level: High (6)

This original bachelorette game is played by dressing the bachelorette from the ground up as you would like her to look. Or play in teams.

Set up/time:

10 min
Get all the clothes and props out of her closet. Put it on the sofa, stand her up and get started. While you dress her, put a blindfold on her so that she doesn´t see what she looks like until you´re all done with her.

Play/time/instructions:

10-15 min
Have one judge that determines the outcome of this contest by looking at design, coolness and style. 1-3 point rating system for each of the categories.

Players: 6-15 (3 per team) Each team gets the chance of dressing her up or you can have bridesmaids as mannequins instead of just the bachelorette, to lessen the time it takes to play.

Complexity level: Low (1)

Humiliation level: Medium (3)

Noise level: Medium (3)

I´ll list some questions I consider good (mixed questions). You can make it the truth or drink game where you ask a question and she either has to answer truthfully or drink a shot. Or just as a fun game to get to know her (alcohol free).

Set up/time:

0 min

Play/time/instructions:

0 min
Just read off the list and hope for the best.

1) Have you ever thought of another person while making love to your partner?

2) What are the best/worse qualities about your man that irritate you/you love the most?

3) Who will control the marriage/Who is in charge?

4) What are the 3 favorite positions you love doing with your lover?

5) Name 5 things you would like him to do for you/you do for him?

6) Is his style (clothing/personality/way of thinking etc) something you want to change, get rid of or keep?

7) What pet name did you give your lovers schlang?

8) Does your lover talk dirty to you in bed?/What has he said?

9) Where is the most daring and exciting place you´ve ever had sex with your lover?

10) What thing/place/time is non negotiable for either you or your man?

11) What´s the sweetest thing he´s ever said/done to you?

12) Is there something you´d rather do right now than to get married to your future husband?

13) If you´ll have children, who would you rather took care of them the most?

14) Who will do the most chores around the house?

15) Stay in or go out (party or cuddle)?

16) If a more interesting man came along would you dump your current, or would you respectfully decline the other man? Ex: If Brad Pitt/George Clooney came along?

17) Dog or cat? Beer or drink? Football/Hockey or Martha Stewart?

18) What does your man make you feel when he says: I love you?

19) Does he trim his hairy body parts for your pleasure?

20) Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

21) What would make you sacrifice your marriage if you had no other choice?

22) How kinky does he want it/you want it (details)?

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: High (6)

Noise level: Medium-High (5-6)

Are you good at following instructions?

Set up/time:

0 min

Play/time/instructions:

0 min

This is a freestyle game, yet very simple. Write down a list of things you want the bachelorette to do while in your TOTAL dominating control. You can go as far as she wants. Might I suggest to use a safe word just in case ;). Reward her good behaviour with some food or X thing...enjoy.

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: High (6)

Noise level: Medium-High (5-6)

Set up/time:

5 min
Get a few ice cream flavours from the fridge, chocolate cake (or any other cake), whipped cream, vanilla syrup/sauce hopefully you´ll have as many sweet and creamy ingredients as possible. Get a blindfold and 3 large dinner plates. On 2 plates you put the juicy creamy sweet cake and ice cream, on the 3:d you put some icky mix. I prefer to mix advocaat, salt, lime, tabasco, crushed tomatoes and angostura bitters, but 2 of these contain alcohol so you can make your own alcohol free mix. Just as long as it´s gooey and gross.

Play/time/instructions:

7 min
Make the bachelorette stand at a table or kneel down on the floor with those 3 plates in front of her. Make her swallow as slow as possible and she has to take one bite/mouthful every time. Ask her private and intimate questions. After each question she can chose from plate 1, 2 or 3. Switch the plate numbers after every question.

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: Low (0)

Noise level: Low (2)

This original bachelorette game will reveal the shocking truth about your friend.

Set up/time:

1 min
What you need to get before hand is the shocker. After that, come up with your most daring and intimate questions and see how easily you can milk her for information. The more you play the harder it gets to conceal the truth.

Play/time/instructions:

5-15 min
Have all your questions prepared, hook your bachelorette to the wire and fire away. This game might take a while to play depending on how long of a list you have.

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: Medium to high (5-6)

Noise level: Medium to high (5-6)

Who´s the movie buff in your group?The person with the most knowledge & quick fingers wins.

Set up/time:

2 min
Write down some questions about movie/TV Characters, Match movie quotes against letters/numbers or character, what clothes they were wearing in that XYZ scene, famous couple matches etc. etc.

Play/time/instructions:

Alt 1: Use the prepared questionnaire to start the game. Each player who knows (or think she knows) the answer raise her hand & gets the word. The fastest one gets to answer first. For each player, the judge ticks off a point beside the participants name and moves on with the questions. First one hitting 5 or 10 questions wins. What she wins is up to you.

Alt 2: You play with zappers. You´ll need the right zapper (UK) or this one (US) for this job. But this alternative playing method has to be modified to suite this playing style. So...instead of having to press the button when the light turns red, you´ll have to press it when you´ve got the answer. Each player that know the answer has to shout out her name quickly and get the ok from her judge overseeing the game.

When she answers correctly, she gets to push the button. After that everybody pushes the buttons on their controls, and the slowest one gets to be zapped (this alt. game method is played with 2-4 players).

3-10 min

How to judge:
The first one to hit 5 or 10 wins a prize. 1 Point for 1 correct answer.The first person that raise their hand gets to answer the question.

Players: 3-8 Alt. 2-4

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: Low (0)

Noise level: High (9)

Are you a quick thinker? If not, you´d better learn fast!

Set up/time:

0 min
This is a game of hot potato (of sorts). Get 3-6 people standing in a ring. Have your questions prepared in your mind unless you want to...well that will be aparent soon enough. Get your shock ball ready and ask away.

Play/time/instructions:

5-15 min
One person starts the game off by formulationg a question, while the question is being thought up that person has to hold the ball and only pass it after she asks the question and then throws it to the person who is going to answer the question. The person who is trying to

Ex of questions/topics: Math problems (+/-/*//), fashion, hollywood (movie/music) trivia, relationship questions etc. Use simple questions that don´t take a lot of brain power if you want the game to go round as fast as possible. If however you want to make each person hold on to the ball a longer period of time, ask complicated questions.

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: Low (3)

Noise level: Medium (5)

Oooooh! This is gonna be humiliating :)

Set up/time:

5 min
Get a piece of aluminum foil (3-4 meters/10-13 feet), a blind fold and a few sticks you´ve found in the park or whips from your closet. Get a can of whipped cream or some syrup and squeeze out a line that goes from one side to the next all the way to the end like a worm or a snake, or just zig zag it from beginning to end.

Play/time/instructions:

1 min
Have the bachelorette strip down to her bare knickers or as you yanks say, underwear. Have at least 4 people on each corner to hold the aluminum foil in place so it won´t drag and some people in between those people to form 2 parallel lines, each with a stick or a whip in their hands. Have the bachelorette start out on her knees right at the beginning of the aluminum foil. Yell out abusive language like "hussy", "you naughty little girl", "you horny devil" etc and feel free to throw in some tushy smacking as well. Keep in mind that the bachelorette is going to have to approve this abusive name calling and some light spanking before agreeing to this game, so go over it and the rules to the game and make sure she´s in the loop.

Now the bachelorette has to put on her blindfold and get down on her knees and crawl through the entire gauntlet. 2 ways of playing this 1) Licking the whole line of syrup without taking her tongue off of the syrup line, if she does, she´ll need to start all over again! 2) Lick AND eat the whole syrup line and only when she´s finished eating it all, the game is over and she can finally rest from this trying experience.

If you feel that the bachelorette isn´t up for stripping down to her bare underwear she can change into shorts and a tank top or something similar. You might want to skip or tone the spanking and the name calling down as well. But feel free to discuss it with the bachelorette if you´re uncertain as to how much she´s willing to take or stand for that matter. It´s all in good fun though.

Complexity level: Low (2)

Humiliation level: High (10)

Noise level: High (10)

Set up/time:

2 min
Find a wall in your apartment that is bare, no plants or paintings hanging on it or furniture around it (or you might just remove those items from the wall/vicinity).Buy some food (fruit/sauce/cake etc). What price range is up to you. Use a sheet to cover the wall with, so it won´t get dirty from all the splashing.

Play/time/instructions:

5 min+
2 ways to play this. 1) Use a person + a wall 2) Just the wall.

1) Strip down the bride to be in only her tee/tank top and panties. Have her sit down in a chair, or stand if she prefers (blindfolded if preferred). Ask her pre-written questions (you can use the "22 questions" game as a template).When asked a question she can either take the silent treatment or suffer the consequences, which are that everyone will bombard her with fruits, cake and sauce...once. She can chose the same 2 options the 2:nd time and third etc etc. Don´t throw too hard though ;)

2) Put post it notes on the wall of your own personal Hopes/dreams/goals or questions you have for the bachelorette. Stand 10 feet (or more) away from the wall in a execution squad row with a piece of food in your hand, and toss the fruit onto the post-its. Think silently of how this makes you feel deep inside, what thoughts and experiences come up and share it with each other if you want. This is a bonding/icebreaker, a more inward and a well being excersise, you can make this as fun as you want to (or as serious).

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: High/Low (10-0) depending on which option you chose (1 or 2).

Noise level: High-Low (10-2)

Set up/time:

5 min
Get a nun dress, a pillow, a bucket and a dildo.

Play/time/instructions:

5 min+
The person who wants to carry the nun dress, stands infront of the kneeling bachelorette, listening to her confessions. Before taking the knee, she has to reach inside the bucket of "holy water" and splash some on her face. She can talk about whatever she wants regarding her marriage to her bachelor. The nuns job is to interrupt her with leading and deeper questions to get the juice of the story out.

When she´s done, she can kiss the dildo that the nun is holding. Let all who want to try this liberating experience, sit down, and think about what they want to say.

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: High (10)

Noise level: High-Low (10)

Christmas Games:

10-15 min
Buy a plastic christmas tree, or get one from home. This dress up game is for when you have the party at home or close to it.

Players 3-7

Play/time/instructions:

5-15 min
2 ways to play this:

1) Either have a group of small trees for each player & see who decorates the tree the best & gets a prize, or 2) have one big tree, that everyone helps to dress up. The 2:nd way doesn´t require any judging or ruling, it´s strictly a fun activity or ice breaker.

Decorate the tree using your bachelorette accessories like peckers, boas, rings, sashes, necklaces, baloons, bachelorette toilet paper, confetti, banners tiaras & veils.

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: Low (0)

Noise level: Low (2)

Set up time:

2 min
Buy a blow up doll (male of course :P). Get some accessories like santa hat, reindeer antlers & bells, plastic red clown nose (with rubber band so it won´t slide down from the doll). Big red boots, belt & so on...

Players 1-XYZ (if you have the time & everybody wants to try it out)

Play/time/instructions:

2 ways to play this:

Either with or without a blindfold :)

No time limit

The person that dresses the santa doll the fastest wins. If you only have one blow up doll, each player can take turns dressing the santa.

Complexity level: Low (0)

Humiliation level: Low (0)

Noise level: Low (0)

Set up time:

30 sec
Make a calendar from scratch. Write in a few "missions", like on a scavenger hunt, but depending on if this is gonna be played indoors or outside, the missions should be written accordingly.

A few examples...

1) Eat the cake using only your mouth.2) Do the conga3) Sing your favorite karaoke song

Use 4 dices (or the iPhone App) to determine which window to open. Then do what´s written inside.

Cops & robbers

Getting to the truth of the matter.

The game is set up like this...

Set up time:

10 min
Have two cop uniforms, one prisoner uniform. A chair, a spotlight lamp, handcuffs & all the usual police accessories.

Play/time/instructions:

The good cop asks the really fluffy questions like "How often would you do sweet things for your groom?", the bad cop asks "how would you manipulate your way out of a chore & let your husband do it instead?". Questions like these, are just a guideline on what you could do.

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